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Getting married in Missouri, updated October 2026

How to get married in Missouri: steps, costs and the courthouse

A $45 to $51 license from the Recorder of Deeds, no waiting period, and 30 days to use it. Here is every step, what a courthouse wedding costs, and how a $26,000 Missouri wedding compares.

$45 to $51License fee
NoneWaiting period
30 daysValid for
$26,000Avg. wedding

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Small ceremony on a grassy bluff above a wide river valleyIllustrative photos
Small civil wedding ceremony in a city hall room with a few guests
Two wedding rings resting on a signed marriage certificate
License$45 to $51
Waiting periodNone
01The short answer

What it costs to get married in Missouri, from license to full wedding

Cost ladder, 2026
Marriage license (legal minimum)$45 to $51
Courthouse wedding$45 to $51 + county fee
Average Missouri wedding$26,000
US average wedding$34,200

The average Missouri wedding costs about 578 times the license. Bars use a log scale so the small fees stay visible.

License fee from Missouri official sources, see our Missouri requirements page. State and US averages: The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study.

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02Step by step

How to get married in Missouri in 6 steps

From the Recorder of Deeds counter to a recorded marriage, in the order you do it.

The flow, with Missouri timing Timing comes from Missouri rules
1
Check you can marryAny time
2
Gather your documentsBefore you apply
3
Apply at the Recorder of DeedsUp to 30 days before
4
No waiting periodSame day
5
Hold the ceremonyWithin 30 days
6
Return the license, order copiesAfter the ceremony
  1. Engaged couple planning at a kitchen table with a laptop and calendar
    1Any time

    Check you can marry

    Both of you must be at least 18 (no exceptions). You do not need to live in Missouri. No blood test.

  2. Couple sorting photo IDs and paperwork on a kitchen table
    2Before you apply

    Gather your documents

    Bring valid photo ID. If either of you was married before, have the date the last marriage ended. Your county may ask for more, so check its list before you go.

  3. Couple applying for a marriage license at a clerk counterIllustrative
    3Up to 30 days before

    Apply at the Recorder of Deeds

    Apply together at the Recorder of Deeds and pay the license fee ($45 to $51).

  4. Engaged couple circling a date on a wall calendar
    4Same day

    No waiting period

    There is no waiting period, so you can marry the day the license is issued.

  5. Newlyweds walking down courthouse steps as friends toss confettiIllustrative
    5Within 30 days

    Hold the ceremony

    Ordained ministers, priests, rabbis, and religious leaders. Witnesses: 2 witnesses. The license is valid for 30 days.

  6. Friend signing a marriage certificate as a witness
    6After the ceremony

    Return the license, order copies

    The signed license goes back to the issuing office to be recorded. Order certified copies for name changes, insurance and benefits.

Need the document list and county fees? See Missouri marriage license requirements or the national how to get a marriage license guide.

03Timing and rules

Your license window and the rules at a glance

From application to ceremony
Day 0: license issuedDay 30: expires

Apply no more than 30 days before.

Couple signing a marriage license at a county clerk counter
Illustrative image. Hours, appointments and online options differ by county, so check the Recorder of Deeds before you go.
Blood testNo
Residency ruleNo
Witnesses2
Self-unitingNo
RuleMissouri (2026)
Where to applyRecorder of Deeds
License fee$45 to $51, varies by county
Waiting periodNone
License valid for30 days
Minimum age18 (no exceptions)
Witnesses2 witnesses
OfficiantOrdained ministers, priests, rabbis, and religious leaders. Judges of any court, associate circuit judges, and magistrates. Religious societies can appoint their own officiants.
Common-law marriageNot recognized
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04Courthouse wedding

Getting married at the courthouse in Missouri

What one Missouri county charges, how booking works and how far ahead to plan, checked against the official page.

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St. Louis County (Clayton)

Who marries you21st Judicial Circuit judges perform civil ceremonies on Wednesday afternoons at the Clayton courthouse
BookingWednesdays only. Registration opens at noon on the third floor and the ceremony starts at 1 p.m. Wedding line: 314-615-8029.
How far aheadMissouri licenses must be used within 30 days of issue, so pick yours up within a month of your Wednesday.
Good to knowAsk about fees, witnesses and guests on the wedding line.

Source: St. Louis County, Arranging a Court House Ceremony, checked October 2026. Other counties set their own rules and fees.

Officiant reading vows to a couple in a small ceremony room
Illustrative image. Courthouse rooms are small, so ask how many guests fit before you send the group text.
Courthouse, St. Louis County (Clayton)

Courthouse wedding

Cost$45 to $51 + county fee
GuestsA handful, ask the county
Book aheadWednesdays at 1 p.m.
OfficiantProvided by the county
Average Missouri wedding

Venue wedding

Cost$26,000
GuestsAbout 150 on average
Book aheadVenue 12 to 18 months out
OfficiantYour pick, about 11 months out

Courthouse column from the county source above. Wedding cost from The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study; venue and officiant lead times from Zola, 2026 wedding planning checklist. See courthouse wedding costs explained.

Video, CBS Los Angeles

Why more couples pick the courthouse

A short news report on couples choosing courthouse ceremonies as wedding costs rise. Worth two minutes before you weigh a civil ceremony against a $26,000 Missouri wedding.

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Rooftop wedding reception at dusk with a city skyline and string lights
The legal part vs. the party

$45 to $51

is the license fee to marry in Missouri. The average wedding there runs $26,000.

Illustrative image, not a specific Missouri venue.
05Wedding cost

What a Missouri wedding costs next to the US average

Average Missouri wedding$26,000150 guests on average
#29of 50 by cost
Missouri$26,000
US average$34,200

Missouri comes in $8,200 under the US average. Rank 1 is the most expensive state.

Where every $100 goes1 square = $1
  • Venue$8,410 (32%)
  • Catering$5,920 (23%)
  • Photo and video$4,190 (16%)
  • Attire, hair and makeup$1,760 (7%)
  • Everything else$5,720 (22%)
Full Missouri cost breakdown
Missouri vs. neighboring states
Illinois
$38,000
Missouri
$26,000
Tennessee
$24,000
Kentucky
$23,000
Iowa
$21,000
Arkansas
$19,000

State averages are the same figures as our wedding cost calculator. US average $34,200, per The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study.

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06Planning timeline

How far ahead to plan a Missouri wedding, with real lead times

The license is the easy part. It only fits a short window before the day, while venues and photographers book many months out. Here is the national advice next to the Missouri license window.

15 months

Average engagement for couples who married in 2024

The Knot 2025 Real Weddings Study (via The Plumb Club)
18 months

Average engagement for couples marrying in 2026

Zola First Look Report 2026
52%

Of couples began planning about 12 months ahead

The Knot 2025 Real Weddings Study (via The Plumb Club)
Months before the wedding
Zola 2026 advice WeddingWire Missouri license window
18 mo15 mo12 mo9 mo6 mo3 moDay
Venue 12 to 18 mo
Photographer 9 to 12 mo
Caterer 9 to 12 mo
Officiant 11 mo
DJ or band 8 to 12 mo
Florist 6 to 9 mo
Hair and makeup 5 mo
Send save the dates 6 to 8 mo
Mail invitations 6 weeks
Missouri license
18 months outWedding day

Bars show the advice range from Zola, 2026 wedding planning checklist (updated May 2026), dots the single figure from WeddingWire, vendor booking timeline (2018). These are planning advice, not survey data, and Zola gives two figures for some vendors (venue 11 months in its timeline, 12 to 18 in its FAQ). The license bar comes from Missouri rules.

Wedding rings and a pen resting on a marriage license
The rule

Missouri license timing

Apply no more than 30 days before. There is no waiting period, so you can marry the day it is issued.

Missouri license rules
Couple waiting on a bench in a county office hallway with a folderIllustrative
Real life

Booking in St. Louis County (Clayton)

Missouri licenses must be used within 30 days of issue, so pick yours up within a month of your Wednesday.

Dodge County, Wisconsin, County Clerk
Engaged couple touring an empty rustic reception hallIllustrative
The order

Venue first, license last

Zola puts the venue 12 to 18 months out, photographers and caterers 9 to 12, and save the dates 6 to 8. The license comes last, inside the Missouri window above. Zola's 2026 report also found a few couples now book a venue before they are even engaged (7%, up from 6%).

Zola First Look Report 2026
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Weddings like yours in Missouri

From the clerk counter to the last dance

Newlyweds walking down courthouse steps as friends toss confetti
Barn pavilion with string lights over reception tables at dusk
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Two wedding rings resting on a signed marriage certificate
Engaged couple touring an empty rustic reception hall
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Lakeside dock set up for a small wedding ceremony
Friend signing a marriage certificate as a witness
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Officiant reading vows to a couple in a small ceremony room
Small civil wedding ceremony in a city hall room with a few guests
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Reception guests holding up phones to photograph the couple dancing
Newlyweds walking down courthouse steps as friends toss confetti
Barn pavilion with string lights over reception tables at dusk
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Two wedding rings resting on a signed marriage certificate
Engaged couple touring an empty rustic reception hall
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Lakeside dock set up for a small wedding ceremony
Friend signing a marriage certificate as a witness
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Officiant reading vows to a couple in a small ceremony room
Small civil wedding ceremony in a city hall room with a few guests
Candid guest photo from a wedding reception
Reception guests holding up phones to photograph the couple dancing

Illustrative photos: courthouse steps, regional settings and the guest shots couples collect afterwards.

07Timing

Best time to get married in Missouri

Missouri wedding season heat strip
Peak in Missouri Next to peak Quieter Top US month
Spring Fall
Garden ceremony under spring blossoms with petals falling
IllustrativePeak season in MissouriSpring, Fall
Nationally17%

of couples in The Knot 2025 Real Weddings Study married in October, the most popular month in the US. Your own state's peak can sit elsewhere, so check the strip.

The Knot Worldwide, 2025 Real Weddings Study release
Weather in Missouri

Missouri weddings peak from late April through May and again from September through October. Summer humidity is heavy in both St. Louis and Kansas City from late June through August. Fall color makes late October weekends in the Ozarks popular, so book early. Winter weddings move to hotel ballrooms.

Best month to get married
08Where to marry

Missouri regions couples pick most

Barn pavilion with string lights over reception tables at dusk
The Missouri look

Barns, ranches and open country set the look for many weddings here.

Illustrative image, not a specific Missouri venue.

Newlyweds walking down a brick sidewalk in a historic downtownIllustrative

St. Louis

The Gateway City features the Arch, historic neighborhoods, breweries, and a vibrant arts scene.

Summer reception at long tables under shade treesIllustrative

Kansas City

BBQ capital of the world with jazz heritage, fountains, and a booming downtown.

Wedding couple walking between vineyard rows at golden hourIllustrative

Ozarks & Wine Country

Lake of the Ozarks, Hermann wine country, and rolling hills with natural beauty.

Popular in Missouri
Missouri wine country vineyard receptions St. Louis Forest Park and Botanical Garden weddings Kansas City museum and Power and Light District events Hermann German heritage wine-town weekends Lake of the Ozarks resort destination weddings Branson Ozark resort cabin venues
Venues in each Missouri region
09Local questions

What couples ask about marrying in Missouri

Reception guests holding up phones to photograph the couple dancing
The legal part is short. The day is what people remember.Illustrative image

Does Missouri have a marriage license waiting period?

No. The license fee runs $45 to $51 depending on the county, and the license is valid for 30 days. There is no blood test or residency rule. Both applicants apply at a county recorder of deeds office, and two witnesses are required.

Is Missouri wine country a real wedding destination?

Yes. The wine towns along the Missouri River between Hermann and Defiance have many wineries, and several host weddings. Ask each winery about rain plans, guest limits and catering rules, and book fall harvest weekends early.

When is Lake of the Ozarks busiest for weddings?

Lake of the Ozarks is busiest from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Dockside receptions and boat-access ceremony sites set the look. Late September and October bring quieter water and often better rates; ask each resort.

Why does Missouri use the recorder of deeds for marriage licenses?

In Missouri the county recorder of deeds issues marriage licenses and records them. Couples visit the recorder's office, pay the $45 to $51 fee and can marry the same day, since there is no waiting period. The completed license goes back to the same office after the ceremony.

Couple signing a marriage license at a county clerk counterIllustrative
Legal fine print

Missouri has no waiting period, no residency requirement and no blood test. The license fee ranges from $45 to $51 by county, the license is valid for 30 days, and both applicants apply at a county recorder of deeds office. Two witnesses are required. The minimum marriage age is 18. Missouri abolished common-law marriage in 1921. Clergy and judges can officiate; there is no self-uniting option.

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Missouri marriage FAQ

Short answers on cost, license, waiting period, courthouse and witnesses in Missouri.

The legal minimum is the marriage license: $45 to $51 in Missouri. A courthouse or civil ceremony adds a small fee that varies by county. The average Missouri wedding runs about $26,000 per The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study, against a US average of $34,200. That ranks Missouri #29 of 50 states by average cost.

1. Check you can marry. 2. Gather your documents. 3. Apply at the Recorder of Deeds. 4. No waiting period. 5. Hold the ceremony. 6. Return the license, order copies. The full step list is above.

A Missouri marriage license costs $45 to $51, varies by county. You apply at the Recorder of Deeds.

No. You can marry the day you get the license. The license is valid for 30 days.

Yes. In St. Louis County (Clayton), 21st Judicial Circuit judges perform civil ceremonies on Wednesday afternoons at the Clayton courthouse. Wednesdays only. Registration opens at noon on the third floor and the ceremony starts at 1 p.m. Wedding line: 314-615-8029. Rules differ by county, so call the office where you plan to marry.

Yes: 2 witnesses. Ordained ministers, priests, rabbis, and religious leaders.

How to Get Married in Missouri (2026): Steps, Costs, Courthouse