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How to Collect Photos for a Memorial From Family and Friends

Send one private album link to close family first, then to everyone else. Ask each person for 3 to 5 favorite photos by a set time, and help the relatives who only have prints. Below: 7 ways compared, 4 messages to copy, a timeline to the service and how to scan old photos.

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01The short answer

How do you collect photos for a memorial?

Set up one private album that needs no app or account, then send its link to close family first and the wider circle a day later. Ask each person for three to five favorite photos by a set time 24 to 48 hours away. Relatives with prints can photograph them by a window and upload the picture.

3 to 5

favorite photos to ask each person for, per The Unfinished List and Tribute

24 to 48h

is the deadline that keeps people from overthinking it

50 to 80

photos fill a 5 to 8 minute slideshow at about 6 seconds each

300 dpi

is enough to scan 4x6 and 5x7 prints, per the Library of Congress

Sources: The Unfinished List (3 to 5 favorites, the 24 to 48 hour deadline), Tribute, the Library of Congress scanning guide and our own guide to how many photos a funeral slideshow needs. Checked 30 September 2026.

02Quick reference

The best way to collect photos for a memorial: 7 options compared

The limits below come from each company’s own help pages, read on 30 September 2026. Rose chips mark the cell that usually rules a method out for a grieving family of mixed ages.

No-app pickPix Wedding QR album

One album for every photo of them. Relatives scan the QR code or tap the link and upload from the phone browser, with no app and no account, and you download everything as a ZIP.

MethodHow family adds photosAccount for familyLimitsBest for
Pix Wedding QR albumNo-app pick
Scan the QR code or tap the link, upload from the phone browserNone, and no app20 uploads free. Paid plans: unlimited photos and videos, 30MB per photo and 100MB per video, 6 months to 2 years of storageMixed ages, prints photographed on phones, a QR card at the service
Google Photos shared albumTap the link and add photos while Collaborate is onGoogle account to add photos20,000 photos or videos per album. 15 GB per Google account, shared with Gmail and DriveFamilies already using Google Photos
iCloud Shared AlbumInvite by email or phone number, or add on the web to albums made in version 27None on the web for version 27 albumsUp to 100 people including the owner. Version 27 albums count towards the owner’s iCloud storage. Older albums shrink photos to 2,048 pxAll-iPhone families on version 27
Dropbox file requestUpload files through a request link. They land in a folder in your DropboxNone to uploadUses your own space: 2 GB on Dropbox Basic, files up to 2 GB eachOne organizer who wants the files, not a shared album
Texts and email attachmentsRelatives send photos to one person, one message at a timeNonePhotos scattered across threads. Messaging apps often shrink attachmentsTwo or three photos from one person
Facebook groupMembers post photos in a private groupFacebook account to joinRelatives who are not on Facebook are left outFamilies already active in one group
Prints brought to the serviceRelatives bring prints in personNoneSomeone has to photograph or scan each print and give it backThe oldest relatives and framed photos

Limits from Google Photos, Google One, Apple, Dropbox file requests and Dropbox storage. Checked 30 September 2026.

Whatever you pick, pick one. The Unfinished List puts it simply: use one upload spot. Two places means two folders to merge the night before the service. If the family is split between iPhone and Android, the no-app option saves you the argument.

03Which one fits your family

Pick by the people, not the platform

The right choice depends on who has the photos. Find the line that sounds like your family.

  • Most families

    Older relatives, mixed phones, prints in drawers

    Then: A no-app link and QR album. Nobody signs in, and a phone photo of a print uploads like any other photo.

  • If this is you

    Everyone has an iPhone on version 27

    Then: An iCloud Shared Album. Others can add on the web without an Apple Account, and up to 100 people fit, the owner included.

  • If this is you

    The family already lives in Google Photos

    Then: A Google Photos shared album with Collaborate on. Turn Collaborate off after the service so the album stays as it is.

  • If this is you

    Only you should receive the files

    Then: A Dropbox file request. Anyone can upload without an account, and the files use your Dropbox space.

Sources: Apple Shared Albums, Apple limits, Google Photos album controls and Dropbox file requests. Checked 30 September 2026.

04Who to ask, and in what order

How to ask family for photos for a memorial

Ask in rings. The closest family hears first and from someone they know, the wider circle a day later, and everyone else at the service through a QR card.

  1. Day 1

    Immediate family

    Partner, children, siblings. A personal text from someone they know, not a group post.

  2. Day 2

    Extended family and oldest friends

    Cousins, aunts and uncles, school friends. Email plus the family group chat.

  3. Day 2

    The wider circle

    Coworkers, neighbors, clubs, the faith community. One short post each group can forward.

  4. At the service

    Everyone in the room

    A QR card on the photo table for the stories nobody knew about yet.

Cast a wide net at first. Reach out to siblings, old friends, coworkers, and neighbors.
Tribute, in its guide to making a funeral slideshow.
One organizer

1 person

collects and organizes everything. Parting Stone says that one step prevents duplicates and missing pieces.

Divide the work

Tribute suggests three jobs for three people, ideally someone with the skills who is a little less close to the loss.

Collects the photos Picks the music Runs the tech

Go through the albums together

Sharp Funeral Homes recommends a set time and place for photo gathering, especially when your loved one was older and had few digital photos. An afternoon with the old albums, a phone and a pot of coffee brings in the prints nobody would have posted.

05What to ask for

Ask for favorites, not everything

Ask for the best three to five photos rather than everything people can find, and say what kind of photos you mean. A sample does that better than a paragraph.

A mix that feels like them

Mostly the ordinary days

Everyday liferoutines, pets, the porch, the garden
60%
People they lovedfamily and friends, even if imperfect
25%
Places and momentsa wedding, a favorite trail, the kitchen table
15%

The split suggested by The Unfinished List. If you are stuck, it adds, pick the photos that show their expressions or their hands doing familiar things.

Quantity is not the goal; coverage across different chapters of life is.
Tribute, on asking for the best three to five photos.
Pin a sample, as The Unfinished List suggests

One close-up, one group, one everyday moment

  • An older woman laughing at a family celebration
    Sample 1

    A close-up

    One face, near enough to see the expression. These carry the slideshow.

  • Family and friends raising a toast at a long outdoor dinner table
    Sample 2

    A group

    The people they loved, around one table. Imperfect framing is fine.

  • Children eating together under a table at a family party
    Sample 3

    An everyday moment

    An ordinary afternoon. These are the photos people forget to send.

Originals, not screenshots
Ask for the highest-resolution original. Screenshots look blurry when projected, Parting Stone warns.
3 to 5, or 5 to 10?
Tribute and The Unfinished List say 3 to 5 each. Parting Stone says five to ten. Use the larger number for the closest family only.
For the photo table
12 to 24 prints plus 3 to 5 enlarged favorites, per The Unfinished List. More ideas in celebration of life photo displays.
06The full process

How to gather photos for a funeral, in 7 steps

From the day the service date is set to the week after. Steps 2 and 5 are the ones people skip, and they are the ones that bring in the photos nobody had seen.

  1. 01

    Create one private album

    Name it after them, for example “Remembering [Name]”. One upload spot means nothing to merge later. Pick a method from the table above that asks for no app and no account.

  2. 02

    Pin three sample photos

    Add one close-up, one group photo and one everyday moment first. People copy what they see, and the samples show that ordinary photos are welcome.

  3. 03

    Copy the link and save the QR code

    The link goes into texts, email and the group chat. The QR code goes on a card at the service. On Pix Wedding both are ready as soon as the album exists.

  4. 04

    Ask close family first, then the wider circle

    Immediate family on day one, cousins, old friends, coworkers and neighbors a day later. Ask for 3 to 5 favorites by a set time 24 to 48 hours away.

  5. 05

    Help the relatives with prints

    Tell them a phone photo taken by a window is fine. Offer to come over and go through the albums together, or collect the prints at the service.

  6. 06

    Send one gentle reminder

    A few hours before the deadline, one short message to anyone who has not added photos yet. Then stop. Late photos can still go in after the service.

  7. 07

    Put the QR code at the service and keep the album open

    A card on the photo table invites the stories nobody knew about. Keep the album open for a week or so, then download everything and keep two copies.

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The whole plan in one note
HOW RELATIVES ADD THEIR PHOTOS

Scan. Upload.
Nothing to install.

Watch a relative scan the QR code and add photos from the phone browser in seconds, with no app and no account. It is the same album your text and email link opens, so every photo ends up in one place.

Remembering RoseScan to add a photo of Rose
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MEMORIAL ALBUM

Remembering Rose

Example album

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Moment
Grandmas dancing
Moment
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Flower girl asleep
Moment
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Add a memoryNo app needed

Collect every photo of them in one album

Send one link or put a QR card on the photo table. Family and friends add photos and videos from the phone browser, with no app and no account, and you download everything as a ZIP. The first 20 uploads are free.

A memory from Ben

A memory from Ben

Point your camera

Scan to join the album

No app, no account

9:41

UPLOADING

Saving your moment

9:41

THE ALBUM

Remembering Rose

Example album

64 photos · 21 guests

AllMomentsMine
Guest photo 1
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Guest photo 2
Guest photo 3
Guest photo 4
Guest photo 5
Guest photo 6
Guest photo 7
Guest photo 8
Guest photo 9
Add photosShare your moments

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07Copy and paste

What to say: 4 messages to ask for photos

Short, warm, and one clear action. Each one asks for a few favorites by a set time and says that one or two photos are enough. Swap in the names, the dates and your link.

Text message

For close family and friends

Hi [Name], we're putting together a photo album in memory of [First Name] for the service on [Date]. Could you add your 3 to 5 favorite photos by [day and time]? It takes a few taps, no app needed: [album link] Even one or two photos would mean so much. Thank you.

Email

For extended family and older relatives

Subject: A photo album for [Name]'s memorial Dear [Name / Everyone], As we prepare for [Name]'s memorial service on [Date], we're creating a shared photo album to celebrate their life and gather our memories together. We would love to include your photos, from any time in [his/her/their] life. Please choose your 3 to 5 favorites and add them by [day and time]. There's no need to download anything. Just tap the link below, choose the photos and upload. Add your photos here: [album link] If you have printed photos, take a picture of them with your phone near a window and upload that. We'll keep the album open for a few days after the service as well. Thank you for being part of [Name]'s life. It means more than we can say. With love, [Your name]

Group post

For coworkers, clubs and the community

We're collecting photos for [Name]'s memorial and would love your help. If you have a photo of [Name], from any time in [his/her/their] life, please add your favorites to our shared album by [day and time]. No app needed, just tap and upload. [album link] We'll use these photos in a slideshow at the service on [Date], and keep them in an album the whole family can return to. Thank you so much for sharing your memories of [Name].

One gentle reminder

A few hours before the deadline

Just a gentle reminder that the photo album for [Name]'s memorial is still open if you'd like to add anything. [album link] No pressure at all, we just wanted to make sure you saw the link in case the first message got buried. The album will be open through [date], and we'd love to have your photos included. Thank you.

One link, in the chat they already use

Send each person the message in the channel they already read: the text to the relatives who never open email, the email to the ones who are not in the group chat. The line about prints is borrowed from The Unfinished List, whose own script adds: “If you only have prints, a phone snapshot is fine.”

08Timing

A timeline from the first message to the service

Most families have days, not weeks. Tribute’s advice for anyone doing this in grief: give yourself more time than you think you need.

  1. Day 1Album and close family. Create the album, pin the three samples and text the immediate family.
  2. Day 2The wider circle. Email extended family and post in the groups: old friends, coworkers, neighbors, clubs and the faith community.
  3. 24 to 48 hoursDeadline and one reminder. Send the reminder a few hours before the deadline, then start choosing from what came in.
  4. 2 to 3 days beforeBuild and test the slideshow. Parting Stone suggests starting two to three days out. Ask the funeral home whether it has a projector or monitors, and test the file on their screen.
  5. At the serviceThe QR card. A card on the photo table and one at the entrance, plus a helper to photograph the prints people bring. On the Tribute plan the album can run as a live slideshow.
  6. After the serviceKeep it open, then keep two copies. Late photos turn up for days. After about a week, download everything and send the album link to everyone who added a photo.

Sources: Parting Stone on when to start the slideshow, Sharp Funeral Homes on checking for a projector or monitors, Tribute on testing the day before. Building the slideshow itself is covered in how to make a funeral slideshow.

The day before the service
The photos nobody else has

The photo you have never seen is on a cousin’s phone.

A Pix Wedding memorial album takes photos and videos from anyone with the link or the QR code, straight from the phone browser, with no app and no account. Everything lands in one album you can download as a ZIP.

Point your camera

Scan to join the album

No app, no account

9:41

UPLOADING

Saving your moment

9:41

THE ALBUM

Remembering Rose

Example album

64 photos · 21 guests

AllMomentsMine
Guest photo 1
★
Guest photo 2
Guest photo 3
Guest photo 4
Guest photo 5
Guest photo 6
Guest photo 7
Guest photo 8
Guest photo 9
Add photosShare your moments
09Old prints

What if relatives only have printed photos?

Many of the best photos of an older person exist only on paper. Three routes cover everyone, from the grandchild with a new phone to the aunt who will not touch one.

  • Easiest

    Photograph it by a window

    Indirect daylight, tilt the phone a few degrees to cut the glare and fill the frame. Leave creases and date stamps, they are part of the story, and skip heavy filters.

    Source: The Unfinished List

  • Glare-free

    Scan it with Google PhotoScan

    The app has you move the phone over four dots and removes glare. Lay the print flat on a contrasting surface, not carpet, take it out of its sleeve and do not tilt the phone while scanning.

    Source: Google Photos Help

  • For the oldest relatives

    A basket at the service

    A labeled basket next to the QR card. A helper photographs each print, uploads it and gives it back the same day, because a borrowed print is often the only copy.

Video · 4:01 · dottotech

Glare-free copies of old prints, on a phone

A four-minute walkthrough of Google PhotoScan: the four-dot scan that removes glare from prints and photos behind glass. The result is an ordinary photo file, so it uploads to the memorial album like any other picture.

Watch on YouTube

Going the other way, from phone photos to paper? Sharp Funeral Homes notes that many funeral homes will print photos for poster boards or foam core boards to stand on easels. Ask about it when you check for a projector.

10Scanning settings

How to scan old photos for a funeral slideshow

A phone photo is fine for the slideshow. For prints you want to enlarge or reprint, a flatbed scanner does better. These settings come from the Library of Congress guide to scanning personal collections.

Resolution, in dots per inch

The smaller the original, the higher the dpi

Prints up to 5x74x6 and 5x7 photos
300 dpi
Prints you will enlarge400 to 600 dpi for 8x10 and larger
600 dpi
35 mm slidesthe frame is tiny, so the dpi is high
1,900 dpi

Source: Library of Congress, Scanning Your Personal Collections. Checked 30 September 2026.

Before you scan

Clean the glass, free the print

Take off paper clips, staples and tape, and clean the scanner glass so dust does not end up on every photo. Scan each print once and let the family download the file.

Color prints
Save as a medium-quality JPEG. Use the high-quality setting if you want to reprint the photo or make an 8x10 enlargement.
Black and white prints
Scan in grayscale. It keeps the tones and the file stays smaller.
File names with the date
Start each name with a yyyymmdd date and a word, so the photos sort in order and stay findable.
11What goes wrong

Mistakes that leave photos behind

Eight ways a photo request ends up with gaps. Each one has a two-minute fix.

  1. 01

    Asking for “any photos you have”

    An open request gets either nothing or hundreds of files. Ask for 3 to 5 favorites: a close-up, a group and an everyday moment.

  2. 02

    Giving no deadline

    Without a time, people wait for the perfect photo. A deadline 24 to 48 hours away brings the first wave in.

  3. 03

    Three upload spots at once

    A shared drive, a group chat and an email thread means merging files the night before the service. Use one album.

  4. 04

    Accepting screenshots

    Screenshots look blurry when projected, Parting Stone warns. Ask for the photo itself.

  5. 05

    An app or an account in the way

    Every sign-in stops someone. Test the link on a phone that has never used the service before you send it.

  6. 06

    Only asking the family

    Coworkers, neighbors and old friends hold photos the family has never seen. Tribute’s advice: cast a wide net.

  7. 07

    Keeping borrowed prints

    A print may be the only copy. Photograph it the same day and give it back with a thank you.

  8. 08

    Closing the album at the service

    Photos keep turning up for days afterwards. Keep the album open, then download it and keep two copies.

12A note on privacy

Keep the album for the people who knew them

A memorial album holds photos from the last years, of children and of people who never asked to be online. Know what each switch does before the link goes out.

The link is the key
Google says anyone with the link to shared photos can view them. Send it privately, never in a public post.
A leaked link can be reset
In Google Photos, turn link sharing off and back on. A new link is created and the old one stops working.
Decide on viewing and downloads
On Pix Wedding the host turns guest viewing and guest downloads on or off in Settings.
Close additions when you are done
In Google Photos, turn off Collaborate under Options so nobody else can add to the album.
Ask before the hard photos
Check with the closest family before sharing photos from the last months, from the hospital or of children.
Leave Public Website off
Apple’s option publishes a shared album to a website that anyone can see in a browser.
13After the service

Turn the collection into a family archive

The album outlives the service. It is often the only place where every photo of them sits together, so treat it like the family archive it is.

The Library of Congress rule

2 copies

at least, stored in different places, as far apart as possible, and moved to new storage every 5 to 7 years. Source: Library of Congress.

The week after

Six things to do before you close the album

  • Download the full album before its storage ends
  • Keep at least two copies in different places, far apart
  • Move the files to new storage every 5 to 7 years
  • Name files with a yyyymmdd date so they sort in order
  • Send the album link to everyone who added a photo
  • Print a small photo book for the relatives who do not use phones

On Pix Wedding every paid plan includes a ZIP download of the full album, with storage for 6 months, 1 year or 2 years by plan. For the backup itself, our guide on backing up photos walks through a second and a third copy, and a digital memorial covers what to build with the photos next.

MEMORIAL ALBUM PRICING

One payment, one album for every memory

Free to try with 20 uploads, no card. Every paid plan is a one-time payment with unlimited photos, videos and family members. What changes between them is how long the album takes photos, how long it is stored and the extras.

REMEMBRANCE
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Unlimited photos & videos
Unlimited family & guests
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3 months to keep adding memories
6 months storage + ZIP download
QR code template designs
Priority support
Multiple family admins
Pay with Apple Pay, Google Pay or card.Money back if your guests never upload.
With live slideshow
TRIBUTE
$54one-time

For a full service and gathering

Everything in Remembrance
6 months to keep adding memories
1 year storage + ZIP download
Live slideshow at the service
Up to 6 sub-albums (service, reception, slideshow)
Audio tributes & name tracking
Custom script and serif fonts
Pay with Apple Pay, Google Pay or card.Money back if your guests never upload.
LEGACY
$84one-time

A lasting family archive

Everything in Tribute
1 year to keep adding memories
2 years storage + ZIP download
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Common Questions

Collecting Photos for a Memorial: Common Questions

Quick answers on apps and accounts, what to say, timing, printed photos, how many to collect and how long to keep the album open.

Create one private album that family can add to from a link, with no app and no account, and send the link to close family first and the wider circle a day later. Ask each person for 3 to 5 favorite photos by a set time 24 to 48 hours away. On Pix Wedding, relatives scan a QR code or tap the link and upload from the phone browser, and the first 20 uploads are free.

Not with a link-based album such as Pix Wedding. Relatives tap the link or scan the QR code and upload from the phone browser, with no app and no account. Adding photos to a Google Photos shared album is tied to a Google account, iCloud Shared Albums accept web uploads without an Apple Account only for albums created in version 27, and a Dropbox file request needs no account to upload.

Keep the message short and warm. Say what you are making, give one simple action and a gentle deadline, and say that one or two photos are enough. Asking for 3 to 5 favorites is easier to answer than asking for everything. The four scripts on this page (a text, an email, a group post and one reminder) can be copied and adjusted.

Start the day the service date is set. Give people a deadline 24 to 48 hours away so they do not overthink it, send one reminder, and keep the album open after the service for late photos. If there will be a slideshow, Parting Stone suggests starting it two to three days before the service so there is time to choose music and test playback.

Ask them to photograph the print with a phone near a window, tilt it a few degrees to cut glare and fill the frame, then upload the picture. Google PhotoScan removes glare with a four-dot scan. For prints you want to enlarge, a flatbed scan at 300 dpi covers 4x6 and 5x7 prints and 400 to 600 dpi covers 8x10 and larger, per the Library of Congress. Or collect prints in a basket at the service, photograph them and give them back.

For a slideshow, 50 to 80 photos fill 5 to 8 minutes at about 6 seconds each. Collect more than you show: as an illustration, 20 people sending 3 to 5 favorites each gives you 60 to 100 photos to choose from. For a photo table, The Unfinished List suggests 12 to 24 prints plus 3 to 5 enlarged favorites. Everything else stays in the album the family keeps.

Keep it open for at least a few days after the service, because photos keep turning up once people start looking. Then download everything and keep two copies in different places. On Pix Wedding the Remembrance plan takes uploads for 3 months and stores the album for 6 months, Tribute for 6 months and 1 year, Legacy for 1 year and 2 years, each with a ZIP download.

One person. Parting Stone notes that assigning one person to collect and organize everything prevents duplicates and missing pieces. Tribute suggests dividing the rest of the work: one person on the photos, another on the music and another on the technical side, ideally someone with the skills who is a little less close to the loss.